Thanks for taking the time to leave such a thoughtful comment. Let me respond briefly, hopefully better explaining my thinking around this matter:

Note that the DSM-IV and ICD-10 criteria for diagnosis uses the language “three or more” or “at least 3 of ” — while I agree that there are a combination of symptoms that satisfy a DPD diagnosis which may align with a criminal likelihood, there are also alternate combinations which do not necessarily entail criminality. For example:

3. impulsiveness or failure to plan ahead;
5. reckless disregard for safety of self or others;
6. consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations;

I didn’t really speak to the issue of what I mean when I say “I wish there weren’t so many people here,” but I’ll say this: it’s not a matter of anxiety or lack of desire to be around people. It refers to a much more robust group of emotions that I didn’t want to go into detail over.

I actually desire the company of others over being alone. I’m quite comfortable in social settings, and wouldn’t necessarily describe myself as an especially anxious person. This is why I self-identify as an extrovert. While I can appear to get along with just about anyone, I’m actually quite selective about who I actually prefer to be around. This lightly touches on what I mean when I say “I wish there weren’t so many people here.”